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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

11.06.2025 07:41

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

My mum and dad in the seventies!

What does it mean when you dream that your mother died?

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

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That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

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Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

I never cut or harmed myself..

Why am I always so tired and I don't eat enough?

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

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But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

On the 31st of Jan this month .

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

If gays can get married, why can't I marry my dog or a cheeseburger?

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

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Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

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One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

Was to survive, this bastard.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

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But im dying ,and its too late for me.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

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He resisted the act ,that day.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

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They are buried together, in the same grave..

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

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But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

Im dying but, im not bitter.

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Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

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And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

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He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

I said to her

She wouldn,t have been !

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

I will be 64.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

I couldn’t, believe it.

I had hoped to write a book about this .

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

He knew the spot.

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

(And it was in our own minds.)

She loved him until the end.

She married twice! .

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

Comes on , in middle age.

Put me off passion for life!!

She found it foreign!.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

One cannot live in the past .

It was going to be , some day.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

Im still living with it.

I waited trembling.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

I could never make a relationship work though!

My family never makes their pension either.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

I write beautiful poetry .

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

As i do to all so called friends.?

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

Especially a lifetime of it.

All the time i was locked up.

I was 9 years of age.

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

So whats the point in blame.

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

But, we were locked up after school.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

Ive learnt so much.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

So, i spoilt her more .

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

This is how, and why children get BPD.

My life is so biszare .

What did i know ?

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

But ive been too sick for many years..

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

We were not on the streets..

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

I was seconnd youngest,

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

We all went to grammer schools

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

This is soul school!.

I was scared of men, in general

She was in good health!

I know ,a lot about trauma.

Who then, do I blame.?

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

Would this be the day?

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

The only rule us 5 kids had .

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

I don,t even have a pension.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

I have no regrets .

I think the readers, may guess!

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

When she asked me how she looked .

And who doesn’t know suffering?

And i lived it daily.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

Why did i forgive my father ?

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

I was very sick at this time too.

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

But it wasn’t much.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.